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  • Category: Family  (34)
    • The Resilient Child by: Lu

      April 8, 2012, 13:39

      Article first published on Expatspost.com, The Resilient Child. Teaching PE last week, one of my kindergarteners (we’ll call him John) seemed unusually…

    • Missing Jessica: Another Sad Missing Person's Story by: Lu

      April 3, 2012, 20:37

      Article first published on Expatspost.com, Missing Jessica. All too frequently, the evening news will highlight a missing child, teen or young adult.…

    • Building Your Child's Self-Esteem by: Lu

      January 22, 2012, 15:24

      “An individual’s self-concept is the core of his personality. It affects every aspect of human behavior; the ability to learn, the capacity to grow and…

    • Where Did You Go June Cleaver?: The Not-So-New Epidemic of Scary Stage Moms by: Lu

      January 16, 2012, 16:15

      What's Your Idea of the Perfect Mom? Watch the video above and hear what some people have to say. But is there such a thing as a perfect mother? Do you know…

    • The Spoiled Child by: Lu

      December 22, 2011, 10:15

        Okay…I’ll confess…my new guilty pleasure is watching The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills on Bravo. Is it the cat fights that hooked me? Maybe…

    • The ADHD Child: Miracle or Madness? by: Lu

      December 21, 2011, 11:52

      "It's not my fault that the world is not keeping up with me..." In second grade, I was diagnosed with “hyperactivity” (now called ADHD) at Boston’s…

    • Helping Your Teen Cope With Heartache  by: Lu

      December 18, 2011, 15:34

        C.K. Kelly Martin’s book, I Know It’s Over, powerfully illustrates first love and how great a loss it can be for a teenager. Readers are moved by…

    • Mother's Day: Just another day? by: Lu

      May 8, 2011, 18:39

      Article first published as Mother's Day on Blogcritics. American culture is funny; always assigning days on the calendar to celebrate special people. What…

    • My Brother, the Secret Service Agent by: Lu

      February 20, 2011, 13:11

      Article first published as National Geographic Airing Inside the US Secret Service on Blogcritics. National Geographic will air it's program, "Inside the…

    • Birthorder and family dynamics: How "niche" affects society by: Lu

      January 21, 2011, 16:31

      “Happy or unhappy, families are all mysterious. We have only to imagine how differently we would be described—and will be, after our deaths—by each of…

    • Christmas Stories by: Lu

      December 15, 2010, 09:21

      Do you remember how magical the Christmas season was when you were a kid? This is the time of year that I miss teaching. My first graders loved listening to…

    • Summer Vacation; leave the job behind by: Lu

      June 13, 2010, 03:19

      Don’t bring your job with you! Memorial Day weekend begins the savored summertime season. Barbe ques, swimming in pools, walks along the sea or just…

    • Slow down the Wheel by: Lu

      June 13, 2010, 03:04

      “Every now and then, have a little relaxation, for when you come back to your work, your judgment will be surer…the work appears smaller and more of it can…

    • Surviving Your Career by: Lu

      June 13, 2010, 02:44

      Working overtime is a normal practice in today’s job market. But who determines when burning the midnight oil begins to tip the scale to the “unhealthy”…

    • Family Circus by: Lu

      April 11, 2010, 00:49

      Every August, my parents would load the family into our 67 Ford station wagon, and drive for an hour, heading to the Cape. My siblings and I would wrestle…

    • The Garden Of My Childhood by: Lu

      April 10, 2010, 01:24

      Like the song in the video : "I had wanted it to last..." But summer, like childhood, won't last for ever. Enjoy those special moments while you have…

    • It Should Be The Springtime of Life by: Lu

      April 5, 2010, 23:25

      Mark Harris - Find Your Wings From the album The Line Between The Two "I pray that God would fill your heart with dreams And that faith gives you the…

    • Should we be blaming the kids? by: Lu

      March 21, 2010, 22:44

      Should We Be Blaming The Kids? Part I What do you mean Timmy needs to go to the well? Shouldn’t it be Lassie? ACT I Picture a beautiful, crisp, autumn…

    • How do you communicate with your teenager? by: Lu

      March 15, 2010, 16:23

      "I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.”~Robert McCloskey Do…

    • Yoga and it’s health benefits for children by: Lu

      March 15, 2010, 15:45

      "Humor is emotional chaos remembered in tranquility." ~ James Thurber Back in 2008, Fox News covered a story on a toddler, his mother and an American Eagle…

    • It won’t be like this for long… by: Lu

      February 17, 2010, 22:16

      Dealing with the "Terrible Twos": • Did you ever have one of those Mommy days? This picture says it all! If you want to learn what I used to do with my…

    • Divorce and the evolution of family by: Lu

      January 15, 2010, 04:01

      An article about family structure and change. Is the 1950's notion of "mom" really that different today? You decide.

    • Parenting a bipolar child by: Lu

      January 15, 2010, 03:26

      You just got the news.You feel like you've been hit below the belt and you're struggling to breath, after that nasty sucker punch blind -sided you. You can't…

    • Category: Education  (6)
    • Category: Aging  (5)
      • George and Pearl's final scene: A true love story by: Lu

        February 6, 2011, 11:46

        Article first published as One True Love Story for Valentine's Day on Blogcritics. Valentine's Day is only a week away and recently, while I was waiting in…

      • How to communicate with those who are grieving by: Lu

        November 9, 2010, 12:20

        We feel helpless in the presence of someone suffering. The words “I’m so sorry for your loss” seem empty and meaningless but those are the words most of…

      • When it’s more than a lost memory by: Lu

        July 29, 2010, 10:32

        This scene taken from "On Golden Pond", shows Walter, the main character, experiencing frustration, anxiety, and sadness after getting lost on the old main…

      • Fridays with Francis; Caring For Someone with Alzheimers by: Lu

        July 29, 2010, 10:23

        (This is a true story, but the names and locations have been changed. Please watch the video by Rascal Flatts; it's a great song that describes the illness so…

      • Mending Fences by: Lu

        July 5, 2010, 13:08

        When An Elderly Parent Misses His Estranged Child I've been thinking a lot lately about time and how fast it escapes us. Working with elderly clients, many…

  • Category: Psychology & Culture  (18)

    Mental Health, Sociology, Psychology

    • Was Nietzshe Right? by: Lu

      January 29, 2012, 15:39

      “That which doesn't kill you makes you stronger” is a popular phrase that Friedrich Nietzsche, the German philosopher, started. Many Americans have adopted…

    • To Trust Or Not To Trust? by: Lu

      November 5, 2011, 15:15

      “It is impossible to go through life without trust: that is to be imprisoned in the worst cell of all, oneself.”~ Graham Greene We live in a world where…

    • Where Does Creativity Come From? by: Lu

      August 4, 2011, 13:49

      “Creativity seems to emerge from multiple experiences, coupled with a well-supported development of personal resources, including a sense of freedom to…

    • Positive Psychology: How to live a more fullfilling life by: Lu

      July 31, 2011, 14:32

      The mind and behavior, can be traced back to ancient Greece and Egypt. Theorists have introduced variant perspectives of “what makes us tick” and the focus…

    • The Psychology of Writing by: Lu

      July 31, 2011, 11:31

      The sunlight filtered in through the bedroom curtains and my puppy began to bark. This was my alarm clock. I clutched my pillow and buried my head, wishing I…

    • The Games People Play by: Lu

      July 14, 2011, 19:05

      Article first published on BrooWaha as "The Games People Play" John Lennon wrote a song about it; suspense thriller novels have been based on it; even…

    • Gender Differences And Communication Styles by: Lu

      July 7, 2011, 16:00

      It's an age-old dilemma: Men and women speak "different tongues". Books have been written about the subject and television has spoofed the differences between…

    • LOL: Laughter Is Good For You by: Lu

      June 22, 2011, 17:22

      Article first published on BrooWaha as "LOL: Laughter Is Good For You: Laughter is good for our physical health, mental health and social well-being"…

    • Resiliency; It can be learned by: Lu

      June 20, 2011, 13:55

      (Love this video! --Great pep talk on the topic of resiliency) This article was first published on BrooWaha as "What Do The Boston Bruins Have In Common…

    • The Psychology of Lying by: Lu

      June 6, 2011, 10:32

        Article first published as Lying is Alive and Well in American Culture on Blogcritics. "The Liar" was a short story written by Henry James in…

    • How Do You Know When You're Dealing With a Narcissistic Personality? by: Lu

      June 3, 2011, 05:56

      Article first published as How Do You Know If You're Dealing With a Narcissistic Personality? on Blogcritics. The trauma therapist sat a few feet away from…

    • The Power of Forgiveness; It's Actually Good For You by: Lu

      June 1, 2011, 10:54

      Article first published as The Power of Forgiveness on Blogcritics. In 2006, The Boston Globe reported a about a little girl named Kai Leigh Harriott. At…

    • Cyberbullying: Cruelty at a whole new level by: Lu

      January 8, 2011, 13:26

      Merriam Webster defines a bully as “a blustering browbeating person; especially: one habitually cruel to others who are weaker.” As adults, we all have…

    • The Heart-Brain Connection: Teaching our children to cope with negative events by: Lu

      January 8, 2011, 09:42

      I selected this post to be featured on my blog’s page at Culture Blogs. The Neuroscience of Social, Emotional, and Academic Learning Brain research has…

    • Tis the season to be jolly? ~ How to bounce back from the holiday blues by: Lu

      December 2, 2010, 14:52

      Tis the season to be jolly? ~ How to bounce back from the holiday blues It’s in the air. That special feeling that only comes from the holiday season; where…

    • EMDR: Kids call it magic by: Lu

      November 2, 2010, 18:48

      I recommend watching the video above. It's one man's story, diagnosed with PTSD, EMDR helped him recover. It shows a session of EMDR, illustrating how the…

    • When It’s More Than Singing The Blues by: Lu

      July 4, 2010, 21:48

      Singing the blues In Jazz, singing the blues is entertaining. I got to watch a  jazz band on Bourbon Street play when I was visiting  Louisiana several…

    • Little Boy Lost by: Lu

      March 26, 2010, 16:40

      related post: parenting a bipolar child

  • Category: Motivational  (7)
    • Soholaunch Shines Their Light On Writers1stop.com! by: Lu

      August 24, 2010, 11:14

      Soholaunch is an awesome website builder for businesses and they just featured my business website for their blog. Check out the article written by Jay Zaffos…

    • Maybe, Today... by: Lu

      July 25, 2010, 15:07

      “The mark of your ignorance is the depth of your belief in injustice and tragedy. What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls a…

    • “Ooh Child..” by: Lu

      June 30, 2010, 12:49

      “When Will It Get Better?” My Conversation with God I’m having one of those days. I can’t seem to get any of my writing done; just not in the mood…

    • Why? by: Lu

      June 21, 2010, 18:09

      Who can forget the winter Olympics’ skating scandal of 1994? It was Jan.6, during the trials, when Nancy Kerrigan, Massachusetts’ hometown darling, was…

    • It’s about NOW… by: Lu

      June 8, 2010, 00:14

      What we see depends mainly on what we look for. -Sir John Lubbock Is it half empty or half full? You hear that a lot, usually when someone…

    • Thanks Coach!..I’ll keep climbing that mountain… by: Lu

      April 29, 2010, 00:16

      This post is dedicated to coaches everywhere... (especially my dad, former Boston College Coach and former coach for US Marines) "Football doesn't build…

    • Faith by: Lu

      February 17, 2010, 01:03

      Let go of the Past ....Move On... Amazon.com Widgets Celebrate New Beginnings Rascal Flatts "I'm Moving On" I've dealt with my ghosts and I've faced all…

  • Category: Reviews, News and Opinion  (38)
  • Category: Relationships  (16)
    • Choose Inspiration: The search for healthy intimacy by: Lu

      October 4, 2011, 10:03

      “The longing for a destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often, we’re forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our…

    • Breaking Down Walls: Why do some people run from love? by: Lu

      August 30, 2011, 07:23

      Article first published on BrooWaha as Building Bridges “People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.”~Joseph Fort Newton It’s a…

    • BTW: Vulnerability Is Beautiful by: Lu

      July 3, 2011, 19:06

      Article first published on BrooWaha as BTW: Vulnerability Is Beautiful It was 4th of July weekend and plans were set. I suggested icecream; that was a…

    • Finding Your Soulmate: Is it a myth? by: Lu

      June 30, 2011, 08:36

      Article first published on BrooWaha: Paris Anyone?-What's the right answer:Find a soul mate or complete yourself? Who can forget the all time number one…

    • You're Broken?...Join the club! by: Lu

      June 19, 2011, 10:47

      Article first published as It's Okay - We're All Broken on Blogcritics. Bon Jovi Lyrics~"Everybody's Broken" “You’re feeling like a stranger, but all…

    • Little Miss- She Finally Gets It by: Lu

      March 18, 2011, 21:57

      Sometimes, I have trouble letting go of the past. Even if it's moving on from a bad relationship, I can be stubborn like a little girl who refuses to let go of…

    • Know Your Emotional IQ by: Lu

      September 13, 2010, 22:52

      Have You Met Her Yet?`~ Know Your Emotional IQ...   "Life is a comedy for those who think and a tragedy for those who feel." ~Horace Walpole My Funny…

    • King Of the Castle: Dealing With A Controlling Partner by: Lu

      July 18, 2010, 12:47

      “If you want to sacrifice the admiration of many men for the criticism of one, go ahead, get married.”~ Katharine Hepburn Controlling Partners Relationshi…

    • Missing You by: Lu

      July 3, 2010, 17:07

      I'm still missing you... They say time heals, so why isn't time helping me? We were  best friends or so I thought. You turned out to be selfish with…

    • A Few Words On Caring by: Lu

      June 18, 2010, 22:32

      "Forget your past my good bye girl... you'll find your home at last." ~ Song from "The Goodbye Girl", sung by David Gates A Few Words Of Caring... After…

    • Kissing Toads by: Lu

      June 18, 2010, 21:40

      HEAVEN, HEARTACHE AND THE POWER OF LOVE!! “People named John and Mary never divorce. For better or for worse, in madness and in sadness, they seem bound…

    • Remembering by: Lu

      June 11, 2010, 02:31

      I'm remembering...your smile...your love and your fragile heart...I'm remembering...

    • Fool’s Gold by: Lu

      February 18, 2010, 15:57

      You hijacked my heart. I should have looked both ways. Panning in a stream that wasn’t real Just an illusion A fake love I believed…

    • Falling For You by: Lu

      January 15, 2010, 05:13

      love letter

    • Stepping on Cracks by: Lu

      January 11, 2010, 02:32

      What is it about the rain? Knocking on my bedroom window, like a desperate lover, begging for someone to listen to his sad song. Damn him for waking me! How I…

    • One Night in Oz; Who wants to date a munchkin? by: Lu

      December 30, 2009, 04:28

      "The world is a stage, but the play is badly cast."~ Oscar Wilde Got good news today. Picked up some writing jobs and  it even looks…

  • Category: Inspirational  (20)
    • Life Interruptions: Curse or Blessing? by: Lu

      December 24, 2011, 19:47

      Lyrics by Rascal Flatts: "I'm finally content with a past I regret...I 've found you find strength in your moments of weakness...finally I'm at peace with…

    • Ian Lawton: His Thoughts On Change and Chaos by: Lu

      August 16, 2011, 12:13

      "Change means movement. Movement means friction. Only in the frictionless vacuum of a nonexistent abstract world can movement or change occur without that…

    • Cursing the Pendulum: Waiting is the hardest part by: Lu

      July 12, 2011, 19:16

      Lyrics to "For the First Time" by The Script: We don't know how we got into this mad situation Only doing things out of frustration Trying to make it work…

    • Breathe by: Lu

      May 4, 2011, 12:28

      Remember to breathe I spent this gray New England morning sitting at my kitchen table with my laptop, drinking several cups of java, while editing a piece for…

    • Between Hell and Hope; Remember-whatever it is, it's temporary by: Lu

      February 11, 2011, 23:16

      Article first published as Between Hell and Hope on Blogcritics. NOTE: I chose this video because the last scene in this tape reminds me of the last night I…

    • Ross McCreery; Staying "Painfully Optimistic" by: Lu

      January 7, 2011, 12:24

      What is CRPS? CRPS/RSD stands for Complex Regional Pain Syndrome (CRPS), also known as Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy. It’s a chronic neurological syndrome…

    • Happiness is a choice by: Lu

      January 4, 2011, 21:17

      “Happiness is a conscious choice, not an automatic response.” ~Mildred Barthel New Year's Eve (2010) is now just a memory. Everyone has had time to…

    • Do you believe in Angels? (Part II~Lou's story) by: Lu

      November 25, 2010, 11:06

      (This video shows actual footage of WWII. Lou was aboard one of these ships when he was shot at by the Japanese.) Make sure you read Part I first~click this…

    • Do you believe in Angels? (Part I~True story, recalled by a World War II Veteran) by: Lu

      November 25, 2010, 10:53

      (This video is a funny clip taken from the movie, "Michael, the Archangel". Jean Stapleton is being questioned by Andie MacDowell on her "angel sighting"-Gotta…

    • Success Demands Action: A genuine pearl in a virtual sea called the blogosphere  by: Lu

      November 24, 2010, 19:05

      Allen Loomis: One Powerful Writer Today’s new media offers a variety of reading material that’s easily discovered with one mouse click, but searching for…

    • The Art Of Losing by: Lu

      October 29, 2010, 12:09

      Lyrics from "I'm Alive" by Kenny Chesney: "So damn easy to say that life's so hard...Everybody's got their share of battle scars...As for me, I'd like to…

    • What Is Home?~ Anon by: Lu

      September 11, 2010, 22:44

      What is home?~ Anon The music distracted me. I stopped fighting with my laptop and the windows 7 update disc to listen to the sound coming through my…

    • Life is like a cup of coffee by: Lu

      April 25, 2010, 01:24

      Before you read this post, I invite you to watch the video and then you'll understand my message more clearly.... IT'S JUST A CUP... I was feeling sorry for…

    • How to survive these hard times; Think like Socrates… by: Lu

      April 4, 2010, 23:04

      “Remember, no human condition is ever permanent. Then you will not be overjoyed in good fortune nor too scornful in misfortune.”~ Socrates Rate the…

    • Starting Over by: Lu

      March 21, 2010, 20:13

      "To gain that which is worth having, it may be necessary to lose everything else" ~Devlin, Bernadette Searching for serenity Slowly strolling down a lane…

    • Life Moves On & Master of the Rain Dance by: Lu

      March 15, 2010, 18:03

      "Life moves on, whether we act as cowards or heroes. Life has no other discipline to impose, if we would realize it, than to accept life unquestioningly.…

    • Joan Zink & Nostradamus by: Lu

      March 15, 2010, 16:44

      “The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the…

    • A fork in the road by: Lu

      March 8, 2010, 02:39

      A FORK IN THE ROAD What do I do? Life Is A Fork In The Road is a book in the making by author, Don Shapiro. Fork, a term to describe a crossroad or period…

    • Temple Grandin by: Lu

      February 9, 2010, 17:41

      Dr.Temple Grandin Dr. Temple Grandin is a woman all mothers of children diagnosed with Autism should learn about and get to know. She is living proof of…

    • One Mother’s Wish by: Lu

      January 28, 2010, 03:13

      “I love sleep. My life has the tendency to fall apart when I’m awake you know.”~Ernest Hemingway Starlight, Star bright; One Mother's Wish Do you…

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